Roger!!!!!!!
Wow!! Another Wow!! That Find-A-Grave information is completely new to me! It shows exactly how old James Francis Burke was at his death: 65y 1m 17d, which of course reveals his birthdate: 20 July, 1829! Did I get the math right? (death date 6 Sept., 1894) (interesting that he has always reported 1830 as his birth year).
And there's a photo of Jessie's gravestone with inscription with birthdate: Sept. 3, 1828! (though the transcription shows 1829, which is understandable when viewing the photo and by all accounts is incorrect). Unbelievably awesome!

I should call it a day, with this great stuff, but of course this is family research, to which heroin is a gateway drug.
My Family Search search in the 1841 census for Jessie Sutherland b. Scotland 1828 father John shows up with only two possibilities:
one in Loth parish, Sutherland county, and one in Forfashire (Angus).
Why don't the parent's show in those listings? And when I search for John Sutherland in Loth parish, I get 41 hits! Really? 41 John Sutherlands living in Loth Parish in 1841??
But they don't list children. Isn't there a way to look at the entire family for a particular census listing?
I gotta lay off for awhile and get back to my real life.
Thanks again Roger. So great!
Joe