Many thanks to you KGarrad for your extended Lookup.
It's pretty certain that i should send off for Certificates to Nail this one, but by way of courtesy i should briefly explain the background.
Henry John South was the Grandfather of a recently deceased connection here in Australia, and the family have his DOB [ passed down over years], as the 11th of April 1864, and they say without a Cert', that he was born in Barking, where the family lived for many, many, years, at 26 Perth Road. I looked in 1881 by Address, and couldn't bring it up, so i assumed it wasn't built then, but with the BMD record for JuneQ 1864, it seemed that this was him [ although i didn't check for a death], as you found.
His marriage to Emily Sarah Starke, on the 13 th of October 1889 at St Olave, i have confirmed, as well as children born 1891, etc, etc [ also Reg' at St Olave].
The only other H J S i could find in 1881 with dates fit, was in Hertfordshire, but he stayed there.
The wife of the above Grandson is 89, and naturally some memories can be a little distorted, although the Address is confirmed, but with later years.
A Marriage Certificate seems to be the best bet, as in the case of the Birth, i cannot confirm 100 % where it was.
With sincere thanks again to you and Mort29 for your help.
Curley.
