Tati you are exceptional many thanks do you think the earlier post is a red herring? though you are right the marriage certificate may hold answers but they do keep changing their story:
(A very quick census search finds this girl - just a guess, really!
1851
HO107/2448 821 8
Tredegar, Bedwellty
173, River Row
John Hamly, head,wid, 60, Engine Fitter, b. Cornwall
Jane, dau, unm, 20, b. Bristol
Alfred, son, 14, Collier, b. do.
Francis Thomas, grandson, 11 mo, b. Bedwelty
George Sockett, son in law, mar, 22, Moulder, b. France
Margt Sockett, wife, 29 (or 24), b. Bristol
John Sockett, son, 1, b. Glamorgan )
Regards
Rhillip