Yes, the 3rd Norfolks was a red herring I followed before I found out he used his step name. All this seems to clarify what my dad told me about him, that my grandad, his son, dropped the letter "S" off his surname Balls, because he left his family. It now seems that the reason he left them was that he deserted and was on the run. Oh dear I think I've uncovered a hornets nest with this one, it maybe also explains why I can't find his death. In 1939 his wife dies and it states she is a widow.
David