I may be able to oblige with a piccie in the middle of next week,once it stops raining here

Are you sure she has a headstone?
Also I'd need you to check with Harrow council if that IS the one they mean.
Carol
Added....from the Commonwealth War grave site.
Cemetery: HARROW (WEALDSTONE) CEMETERY MIDDX
Location Information: This Cemetery is located at the end of a public park. Vehicle access can be gained through Byron Recreational Ground after obtaining a key from the Harrow Civic Centre (Telephone 020 8424 1596). Pedestrian access is easiest via the alley from Belmont Road (nearly opposite Sancroft Road).
No. of Identified Casualties: 53