Maggie,
From reading your posts, I think we may be related. I met Ned Kiley around 1999 while tracking down my Condon ancestors in Dungarvan. I spoke with him at his buisness at length and have traced many of the Condon family in Dungarvan. I'm not sure of Ned's wife name, but Ned's mother was Margaret Condon and her husband was James Kiley (Ned's father). What was the name of your grandmother? I am interested in what you may have also. My ggf was William Condon, who was Margaret's Uncle. I have much to share if related.
Tim
Cincinnati, Ohio