Thanks very much Sue
Now I’m really confused.
We don’t know when Alfred joined the Army. The only thing I have found of his Army records is the medal card. I understand Officers being able to take a wife but would a Private be permitted to take his?
I’m using ancestry.co.uk So far I have found how to access Passenger lists for UK arrivals but not departures. Are you using a different lookup website?
Could you post a link to the source so I can try looking up things myself please?
We have a marriage record for Alfred and Caroline dated Christmas day 1915 in London. I can’t see a Private getting leave to come all the way from India to London. This is just a guess but we suspect he joined up 1915 to ‘do his bit’. He probably got Christmas or embarkation leave after training and got married. He and Caroline were from the same neighbourhood, went to the same church and were the same age. They probably knew each other most of their lives.
So on the date you give she was still single and therefore Miss Douglas, not Mrs Hoare unless there’s something funny going on.
I wouldn’t put something funny past my Grandfather; he has a track record…
We have a Passenger list for him coming home with the Army dated 10/4/1920. No sign of Caroline aboard the ship.
Somehow he and Caroline turn up in India. We don’t know if he went back out with her after he came home with the Army, if they travelled separately, or if she was still out there and he went back to her.
All we know is that she died in Bombay on 13th February 1921 and he must have been there because he was the informant on the death certificate. He came home 28th April 1922 and is giving his occupation as letter press man. He had served a printing apprenticeship before the Army.
Mysteriously we have a photograph, on the back is written Kahndala, Christmas 1922. Kahndala is a hill station near Bombay.
Now if he arrived back in London in April 1922 how has he taken a photo in India at Christmas?
He then married the daughter of his cousin in 1925. As a close family member she must have known he had been married before. Yet neither of them ever mentioned Granddads first marriage. The first anyone knew was when we pulled the marriage certificate and found he was a widower when they married.
Here’s a photo you might like to have, if you would like a higher resolution version PM me an address to send it to. On the back it says.
Station Hospital Trimulgherry.
You probably know this, but Trimulgherry is a suburb of Secunderabad, north of Hyderabad. Secunderabad was a British Cantonment. We assume this photo to have been taken in between 1915-1920.
There must have once been many photographs of India in his collection, but few survive. We wondered what the significance was of the few he kept.
Why the hospital?
We wondered if it was a covert memory of Caroline, kept after he concealed her existence.
Our hypothesis was that after he joined the Army and was posted to India, she had become a nurse so as to get posted near him. If she had been posted to that hospital it would explain why he kept that photo.
Your comments make that very unlikely. However, I wouldn’t put it past Granddad to have lied about marital status to get her there.
Do you have any records for that hospital? Would it be possible to check for either Caroline Emma Douglas or Hoare probably with a date of birth 13th June 1892 please?