Hi Pam,
Thanks the more and more I look at this I am coming to the conclusion that we have in fact found the right Mr Clibborn. Whilst the Grubbs owned Anner Mills, I have discoverd they owned some 20+ other mills in the area, so a very wealthy family. Bits and pieces are beginning to slot in place but what I need is Mary's date of death as I think this may have been also recorded in Clonmel, also, did she have any other christian name.
Regarding my wife's family, the problem we have is that their are no living relatives on that side of the family and all we know is Annie's maiden name was Breen, and we are not sure if they came from New Ross but I suspect it was. As I said an impossible task