Hi Glenda,
Yes, we have been to the burial site, but some of the family graves there are hard to find & /or read. Also, with John, I have his son's birth certificate where John's place & date of birth is mentioned, but I can't actually find that record on NZ's BDM online database. My next step is sending away for either his death cert or marriage cert, from which i may be able to track down more details. Have been sidetracked for a fair while. Thanks for the reply, though.