Hi Patridee and Carol.
To you both I have replied to a posting regarding Farrow-Barlow by you Pat'de; I did miss out a small item that may have a large bearing on all our searches:-
James and Lucy Payne married 1856, BUT Charles their first born was indeed born 1855, true and carried the name Farrow throughout his life until the 1901 Census where he is listed as Payne. Like you both his life to me is a mystery because he is listed on every census as being at home with his parents, but a Ten year span is a long time where relationships start and finish within a couple of years ( family proof of this is availably as in another family member Married gave birth same year as husband dies - remarries, has three more children; all within a five year time span) umm. The family religious ceremonies were all conducted at St Marys Church Bolsterstone, where I have found a recent new internment which carries the Farrow name - might be a link!