Hi Judith
I notice in 1851 James gives his place of birth as Ingleton and in 1841 he has a son Thomas born 1836, William 1837, Mary 1839 and Robert 1841. In 1851 we have Rebecca 1844 and Hannah 1847. In both census there is a Mary Kidd with them. Is this the correct family?
On the IGI familysearch there is a James Wildman christened Ingleton 6 Nov 1814, parents Thomas and Mary - so a possibility
Evie