Hi Pauline
Thanks for the advice.
I have checked the marriage certificate, 28 cannot be misread as he was married on Dec 25th and the 5 and the 8 are not at all similar unfortunately.
I have the ages from the census
1901 age 53
1891 age 42
1881 age 31
Dec 1875 age 28
1881 census entry reads
Household:
Name Relation Marital Status Gender Age Birthplace Occupation Disability
Charles LAMBERT Head M Male 31 Guildford, Surrey, England Indoors Porter Dom
Sarah J. LAMBERT Wife M Female 26 Lewes, Sussex, England
Emily LAMBERT Daur Female 4 Lewes, Sussex, England Scholar
Nellie LAMBERT Daur Female 3 Lewes, Sussex, England
Charles LAMBERT Son Male 2 Lewes, Sussex, England
Hope this further info might help me get somewhere.
Didn't realise this would help as I'm only a beginner!
Lelapsley