I know, isn't is so sad!

What a thing to happen - imagine the horror for his poor Aggie.
I just got back too - waking children

I've found Andrew DISHER, James brother, and he's in Northumberland in 1901 I think.....his age is a bit out but I think it's him; naming pattern of his 1st son, 2nd daughter fits his parents as being Thomas and Mary:
1891: 13 Newton St Private House - Partick, Glasgow, LanarkshireParish: 646/3, ED 1 , pg 31, HS 138
Head: Andrew DISHER 52 **,Iron Driller, b Glasgow (**as transcribed - probably a mis-read of 30-something)
Wife: Helen DISHER 27, b Kingstown, Morayshire
Dau: Jeanie DISHER 2, b England
1901: 19 Coventry Street - Byker, Newcastle on Tyne, NorthumberlandRG13 / Piece: 4792 / Folio: 26 / Page: 44
Head: Andrew DISHER 47, Driller Boiler [worker], b Scotland
Wife: Helen 38, b Scotland
Dau: Jane J 13, b Scotland
Son: Tom 10, b Scotland
Dau: Mary 5, b Scotland
Dau: Jessie 3, b Scotland
Uncle: John Alexander (John A) ADAMS 14, H?eater, Shipyd, b Scotland
Boarder: Thomas HALL 56, mar, Coal Hewer at mines, b NK England
Boarder: Mary J HALL 44, marr, b NK England
The "Uncle" is clearly stated as age 14 - and there is a notation next to his name "W.J.W.W." - no idea what that means - it's not written by the enumerator, possibly by his supervisor, and maybe it's some kind of statistical code. I wonder if John was the Nephew and Andrew was the Uncle (or Uncle in law).
Tree on A**
Andrew DISHER married Helen GEDDES - 2 Feb 1888, Glasgow
Son: Tom DISHER born 10 Jul 1892 in Partick Lanarkshire (Glasgow), died 1930 Dennistoun Lanarkshire
married 1917 in Alloa, Calckmannanshire to: Annie Smith GOLDIE b Larkhall, Lanarkshire, died 1971 Alloa
3 children, 1917, 1919, 1921 (won't name for privacy)
Cheers
AMBLY