Many thanks Emms for your offer. As you probably guess, I'm a newbie at this forum chat so not sure what the etiquette is... pm = private mail?
My Jacksons are from Lanarkshire, Scotland - with the earliest proven link a marriage in Coulter in 1802 between William and Margrat Paterson. This was the man who was a 'close relative' to Robert Jackson. He was a tenant in Coulter Mill and had, according to 'Biggar and the House of Fleming', a brother called James - a blind fiddler who used to entertain locally with his music and tales. I have no proven birth record for William or James. There was another Jackson at the same time in Coulter called Laurence who might have been family - I have a birth record for him in Crawford, just down the road, in 1791 to Laurence (Lawrie), another miller and Rose Blacklaw, who also had a son William in 1780 - which all fits; but no brother James! Grave stones for Laurence and William lie side by side in Coulter kirk yard.
According to various biographies of Robert, he was born in Stonebyres in 1750. Stonebyres was/is in the parish of Lesmahagow, very close to Lanark not 10 miles from Coulter and Crawford. I can find no birth record of a Robert Jackson in the Lesmahagow parish files for that year. However, I can find a Robert Jackson born to a Laurence Jackson in 1750 - a miller in Wandell, Lamington, just a mile or so south of Coulter and where the young Robert Jackson attended school according to one account. The statistical review for Coulter counted Robert Jackson as one of its own - mentioning that he wasn't born in the parish but came to live there as a young boy..... all very intriguing. There were Jacksons in mills in villages all in very close proximity to Culter, Wandell and Crawford (also known as Mudlock Milne) throughout the 18th century. Unfortunately, they were all Laurences, Williams or Johns! There were also connections with Hoddam in Dumfries. At the moment, it feels like I have jigsaw pieces but not many that fit together.
Robert had children by his first marriage to Agnes Stephenson (1785 Edinburgh) but again, according to the various accounts of his life, these predeceased him. I get the impression that his children disappointed him as there is a reference to dubious parenting by Agnes! His second marriage was in around 1825 to a Miss Tidy, daughter to the Rev. Thomas Tidy, rector of Redmarshall, Durham and an army chaplain..
If there are any links to other Jacksons in the Thursby area, that would be very interesting - if only to add to the mystery of his life! He had a general practice near Stockton on Tees (in Eaglesham) but I would like to know why he ended up his days in Thursby....it might be because of family connections...?
Best wishes
Tatty5