miegunyah just hit the green scroll to the left under the name/avatar of the person to whom you wish to send a message...and a personal message window will pop up...J.J.
Hint: when you get a personal message...don't answer on the pop up window, but x out & go up to the top right corner to Welcome back,miegunyah, you have __ messages, 1 is new....and type your reply from there...Otherwise one tends to hit the reply button, which of course sends the senders message back to them...

J.J.