Hi Marcia, Yes had sent you a personal message, I think Elaine and myself had the some trouble think a number of exchanges must happen before a personal message can be sent with contact deals, I am from Henry's son Alfred last born 1864 who come to N.Z with Henry and Mary nee COBB I am happy to share info and Elaine from Henry's son Stephen who stay in England is looking forward to another part of the family coming together. Elaine lives fairly close to Monks Horton and Woodchurch about 40 mins drive. I live in Auckland at the moment but grew up in the Bay of Plenty. yes 12 Children, which 2 do you have going to USA