Hi Pasclaw and Hayden McGrail, and welcome to RootsChat.

Pasclaw, as we don't post the names of living or possibly living persons on RootsChat, could I ask you to edit your post above, please. RootsChat is rigorous in its policy to protect individuals from the threat of identity theft, spam and other abuses.
And with that in mind, could I strongly recommend to Hayden McGrail that you remove what I assume is your personal image from your profile and perhaps also change your profile name to something more anonymous.

Don't make it easy for them.

Once you have both made three posts you can use the Personal Message (PM) facility to exchange personal information as that above, email addresses, ask questions of your Moderator

, etc. Even a couple of smiley posts to reach three is fine.
http://www.rootschat.com/help/pms.phpCongratulations on finding a connection and happy hunting.
Don't hesitate to contact me or another Moderator if you have any questions.
Spades
Moderator, New Zealand Board