Hi,
On the 1861 census image I don't think that the surname of mother-in-law Hannah looks like WEATHER. Comparing the letters with others on the page, the W is totally different. Looking at the previous page there is a David and a DODD where the D is the same as the W in 'WEATHER' so I think the name looks like DEA?IN, the ? could easily be a K and there is a . above the I.
Possible death,
Hannah DEAKIN Dec Q 1862 Stoke Upon Trent 6b 96
Regards,
Daisy