Good afternoon Noel.
Welcome to RootsChat.
Although you have picked up on a thread that was last active 14 years ago, the original poster Lindybnz last visited RootsChat three weeks ago. And probably has been sent an email with notification of your posting.
If you make a 3rd post, just a smile face from above will do, you will then be able gain access to the "My Messages" private messaging service, where you will be able to send a private message to Lindybnz, and therein discuss the living, which we are not allowed to do, on the public forum.
See link in the banner, at the top of the page.
All the best.
Alan.