Thank you again for your trouble with this.
I have been 6 months at it and struggling.
Regarding Thomas, the facts I do have is his marriage cert to Elizabeth, that show him born 1867 and place of birth and father. Confirmed on the 1901 Wales census.
You will see on the 1901 Wales census that Thomas ( no H middle name ever mentioned) and Elizabeth nee Davies have 5 children. There is also a lodger in the house, my great Grandfather Lawrence GALVIN. I do not know what happened in 1901 but Elizabeth went on to have 5 more children with Lawrence GALVIN ( all certificates obtained) in another address in Cardiff.
In 1907 Elizabeth died BUT was buried as a LOVEDAY ( Lawrence and her never married).
The 5 original Loveday children were "abandoned" or something by Thomas, they were looked after by Elizabeths family and one child went to Barnados and subsequently Canada - I have all details. 2 of these children later married in 1917 and 1918 and both put father DECEASED on their marriage certs. However there is NO DEATH recorded of a Thomas LOVEDAY between 1901 and 1918 ( I checked every UK record ) !! Barnados in 1908 have "father lost sight of on his daughters record.
Lots of people on the sight have tried to locate the birth cert for me and this is where the Thomas H comes from. But no death can be found and hence I looked at a second marriage of Thomas post his wifes death in 1907.
He could of emigrated post 1901 but I can not trace that.
Lawrence my great grandfather after Elizabeth died took THEIR 5 children back to Ireland and the rest i know. But what happened to THOMAS?

? Hope this makes sense.
HI again.
I think after reading the post from the very start that the confussion is
Thomas HERBERT Loveday not Thomas HENRY.
On the 1901 Census Thomas Herbert is with his family being born in
the Thrapston reg district in 1870/71.
Rg13/1422/St Giles Northampton Pg 1 Folio 74 Sch 4 No 10 Purser Road.
Thomas is noted as 30.
Therefore if you are tracing the family in Wales I am not sure how it can be
this one.
Sandy