I can find no Army records for a Thomas COLE of the right age, certainly not a Sergeant, it is possible that information on the marriage certificate was
an error or false. However, the following1861 census entry looks to be a strong contender for the family, the daughter Mary Ann born in Limerick is the
right age to be the one who married Thomas MORLEY
1861
HO107 piece 1588 folio 72 page 25
56, Warwrick Street, Woolwich, Greenwich
COLE, Thomas Head Married M 33 1818 Laborer St Giles in the Wood Devonshire
COLE, Ann Barbara Wife Married F 30 1821 Listowel Kerry Ireland
William Son Unmarried M 10 1841 Scholar Dublin
Mary Ann Daughter F 6 1845 Scholar Limerick
Jane Daughter F 4 1847 Woolwich Kent
Thomas Son M 1 (12 M) 1850 Woolwich Kent
John Son M 1 (12 M) 1850 Woolwich Kent
In 1871 Thomas and Ann COLE are on their own in Taylor's Uppacott Cottage Tavistock, Deveon RG10 piece 2193 folio 48 page 14
The son William married Esther CROUCH in 1863, William by this time was also in the Royal Horse Artillery.
Jane married Joshua GENDERS in 1868, Joshua was in the Ordnance Store Corps.
William and Jane were witnesses at each others marriages.
On his marriage certificate William said his father Thomas was stoker, and Jane said he was a ship's cook, but they are definitely the same William and Jane in the census entry above.
A bit more digging uncovered the following marriage in Ireland .
Area - KERRY (COI) , Parish/Church/Congregation - LISTOWEL
Marriage of THOMAS COLE of N/R and ANN MURPHY of HENRY ST on 29 August 1839 by Licence
Husband Wife
Name THOMAS COLE ANN MURPHY
Address N/R HENRY ST
Occupation GUNNER IN ROYAL HORSE ARTILLERY
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