My apologies to all, for some reason, I have not received any notification of replies, I will have to investigate.
CarolW: Its a bit late now but I should have said 1871/81
CatOne: Thank you you have cracked it. My mother aged 91 remembers the house but not the address. The spooky thing is she was taken to Northfleet at the weekend to see her newest great grandaughter, Mum now lives in Eastend of London and my niece's partner's family started in the same area. So we have come full circle, Northfleet, London, Northfleet.
The old boy married three times, he just wore them out one at a time I think.
JJen: Thanks to you too, Thats him
Groom: Thanks Thats interesting, I'll have to see why he was with G/parents.
Once again Rootchatters have come up trumps, what a great bunch of folks.
Thanks to you all