Actually. Lydart, although the beginners info always said 3 posting until we are able to p.m., it's actually only 2...
I've been telling people the same thing for ages as well...

purvis64/Magraret, welcome to rootschat. In the future, it is best to start one's own thread by simply choosing the appropriate board and hitting "new topic". Only one thread per subject, if you can, please...Here is the beginner's board to peruse as well...
http://www.rootschat.com/forum/index.php/board,287.0.html. So go ahead and start a new topic with the name in the subject line "forename, surname, home child", and we'll get started on it. We can add a link from this thread as well...
Soltown, the subject line is most important and you have lots of title, but not the usual term we might use on here.....Are you related to a Home Child ? o r something that at least mentions home child should get rootschatters to notice it. Just hit the modify button at the top of your thread to do this. ( don't use home children to Canada as that is used twice)