Jan,
I have managed to get through the undergrowth and there is a stone to comemorate your grave,
The photo is not that good, i need to get further in to get a better picture.
Charlotte,
I had a go at getting to where i thought your grave was, sadly it was the wrong grave, i will check the records to ensure i am in the right place and if so will try to get to a grave further in the undregrowth,
Regards,
Andy