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How to put same sex marriage in tree - *COMPLETED*
« on: Thursday 29 April 10 00:54 BST (UK) »
Hi There,

I have two people of the same sex in my tree who married after 1988 how do I put this in my family tree

I am not going to put names here as I do not want to unset the family

Both parties are now deceased to the marriage in NZ

Added  They are both male if that helps.
I use both Legacy and Gramps if that helps

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Newbe
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Re: How to put same sex marriage in tree
« Reply #1 on: Thursday 29 April 10 01:37 BST (UK) »
I have Legacy, but no details for same sex marriage.  (Only this person had a relationship with...)
You do have a problem there, as the program has only male and female lines.  What Legacy program is yours?  Mine is 7.0, and there is nothing written in my book about same sex marriages.
The only other thing to do is contact legacy and ask them if any of their updated versions include same sex marriages.
I guess not a lot of people have came across this before, and I have a feeling Legacy has something to do with the Latter Day Saints, so this certainly will be a no go for them.

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Re: How to put same sex marriage in tree
« Reply #2 on: Thursday 29 April 10 01:40 BST (UK) »
I have Legacy 7.4 and do not see anything on that either ::)

Thanks Suzy

Newbe
Purcell, - Limerick - Ireland,Australia, Westland, NZ
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Buckby - England, Australia, New Zealand - 1630 to now
Smith New Zealand
Parker -England - New Zealand  - 1800 to now
Lilley,Lillie, Lilly  - England -New Zealand - 1800 to now
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Re: How to put same sex marriage in tree
« Reply #3 on: Thursday 29 April 10 01:41 BST (UK) »
Hi Newbe,

I've no idea, never come across it in my tree yet ......  ;D

Unless you put one down as the wife  and other husband.    Just did a quick play around with myself, put my sex down as male, and the report said I was the son of so and so.

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Re: How to put same sex marriage in tree
« Reply #4 on: Thursday 29 April 10 01:43 BST (UK) »
That is just where the problem will happen, one will have to take the female role. You know which one would of preferred that without sounding bad?

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MERRICKS of Stafford/Birmingham
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WHITAKER of Guiseley Yorkshire and New Zealand
LYALL, of Dundee, Caithness and New Zealand

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Re: How to put same sex marriage in tree
« Reply #5 on: Thursday 29 April 10 01:47 BST (UK) »
Just enter "F" next to the name you are choosing for the wife, then when all is entered go back and change the "F" to "M".

ADDED:    Hopefully the report should read as:   Fred Blog married the son of ?


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KHP
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Re: How to put same sex marriage in tree
« Reply #7 on: Thursday 29 April 10 01:57 BST (UK) »
Thanks  for that. I see on Gramps there is also a civil union button as well

Am not used to Gramps but am still trying to work it out

Newbe

PS: will have a look at the link soon Johnbarr
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Lilley,Lillie, Lilly  - England -New Zealand - 1800 to now
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Re: How to put same sex marriage in tree
« Reply #8 on: Thursday 29 April 10 02:08 BST (UK) »
I am able to put the person concerned in as male but can't change it from mother to Father and Father ???



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Newbe
Purcell, - Limerick - Ireland,Australia, Westland, NZ
Coppell  - England 1734 to now, New Zealand - 1853 to now
Buckby - England, Australia, New Zealand - 1630 to now
Smith New Zealand
Parker -England - New Zealand  - 1800 to now
Lilley,Lillie, Lilly  - England -New Zealand - 1800 to now
Dykins - Wales, England, New Zealand -  1752 to now
Reynolds, England- 1800 to now
Newdick -Norfolk and Suffolk England , Australia, New Zealand - 1700 to now