Geoff [the original poster] is my first cousin
BUT Grau and J-Bo you are our cousins too!!
I am in touch with several branches of the BOCOCK NZ line and William was brother to our Alfred BOCOCK [born 1859 in Irby Lincolnshire] He married Dinah KIRK [I also have an extensive KIRK tree for Cottingham] Lot of information on both lines to share.
I have come across Robinson BOCOCK there is an un-sourced tree on line that links our eldest BOCOCK ancestor William to the descendant line of Robinson.
AND I once helped another researcher of John Tranfield Bocock this is from the top of my head as I can't find the old emails I believe John was born in Wrawby or had connections to the workhouse. I think if I remember correctly his dad was Benjamin and he had two sons who ended up in the workhouse when their Mum died.
I think descendants of the Butterwick clan ended up in Scunthorpe [as did my BOCOCK line] and they had a descendant who had the same name and year of birth as my Dad Albert Ernest BOCOCK [brother of Geoff's Elsie] and they both had daughters a few years apart given the same name too!!
Maria