Hi Ann,
I can now understand your problem. I have the same problem with my father, although I know he was in the Royal Navy during WW11. He remarried after mum passed on and as I am not the next of kin, I cannot get a copy of his service record. His two children from the second marriage do not reply to my letters even though I have promised them all the info I have gathered for the family tree back to the late 1700s. All I have asked for is a photo copy of the record and a photo of his war medals. I do not want the real thing, just something for my records. Zilch.
I wish you luck for the future, who knows it could just happen one day.
To Al, re the Essex badge, made of silver or white metal?
Since the advent of ebay I have had to specialise for the time being. I now only collect Royal Navy, Royal Marines, Hampshire, Kent and the Gordon Highlanders.
Strange choice you might say, but being a Hampshire lad, ex RN as was/is most of my family. Then fathers family all from Kent, mothers side from Aberdeen where the Gordons were raised.
Royal Marines, well, I had the privelige as a raw recruit to play in a bugle band alongside the Marines every day for a year, hence my love of listening to their bands only. All the rest I'm afraid are not up to scratch as far as I am concerned.
There are so many beautiful badges out there for every Regt, stretching back years and I cannot afford them all.
I did however have one bargain, found an old military drum with a Hampshire crest on. Did some research and discovered that it had actually been an Army issue side drum to the Hampshire Regt. I have had it restored to its true colours and it now proudly hangs in my study.
Good luck all
Tom