I'm hoping someone may be able to suggest ways to break down this wall.
William CAREY and Ellen McDONALD married on 19th October 1856, in Wigan. His father was shown as Patrick, deceased, a hand loom weaver and her father was Archibald, a tin plate worker. William was also shown as a hand loom weaver.
I have traced the family on censuses from 1861 to 1881. William was born in 1833, Wigan and Ellen 1838, Co Longford, Ireland.
However, I have been unable to find any trace of either family prior to their marriage.
Ellen does not appear on the 1851 census in any recognisable form, which may be because she arrived from Ireland after 1851. Also, there is no Archibald who looks at all likely. Again, he may never have left Ireland in the first place. Was it likely for a young girl to come to England from Ireland without her parents? She would only have been 13 in 1851 and was 19 when she married.
William and Patrick should be there, somewhere, but I can't find them. There is one Patrick Carey on the 1841 & 1851 censuses, but he doesn't have a child William and is also alive on the 1861 census, so that isn't him.
I have found two possible deaths for Patrick CAREY on FreeBMD
As far as I can tell, the only William of that age, living with father Patrick, in Wigan is William LYNCH, a cotton weaver, with father Patrick, also a cotton weaver. The family appears on both the 1841 and 1851 censuses and the name is clearly written as LYNCH in both cases.
Neither William nor Patrick LYNCH appear in the 1861 census and I can't find a death for either of them. I've had a look at Wigan PR's, as well as I can from here, and can't find any reference to his birth or christening so I am left with a nagging suspicion that maybe, somehow, the LYNCH family changed their name to CAREY. Is that at all likely? Is there any way to trace such a thing?
Any suggestions or assistance will be gratefully received
Thanks in advance
Tony