YEs, I got that.
But I (we) are still left trying to find the marriage date and then the cert. for Thomas + Mary b 1844.
As the first child I know about is charlotte, and she is b Alverthorpe so i was thinking along the line of a Marriage in Alverthorpe.
This note was a reply to CaroleW.
Sorry, AVM I had not meant to upset you!. I had not noticed you joined in, as I was busy slowly writing one reply.
Hope we are all in step now.
Eric