So, on the highly unlikely chance that you remember my post from THIRTEEN YEARS AGO...... I finally found out what the secret was and why Nana refused point blank to help with my family tree.....
To cut a long story short, my sister past away in September, aged 43.
My dad was adamant that I'm banned from going (I haven't spoken to HIM in nearly 30 years, but I *did* speak to my sister)
Anyway, he turns up with HIS SON.... WHO NOBODY KNEW ANYTHING ABOUT. A son from his 2nd wife, but he was conceived and born when my dad was still with wife number 1.
He's onto his FOURTH wife now 🙄