Hi Sue,
I just noticed this post, and if your offer still stands, could you please look and see if there is a Private J. SWINDELLS on the Spion Kop memorial? I would like to confirm his first name (Josiah), which isn't given on the website I found. It shows he was killed at Spion Kop on 24 Jan 1900, Natal Field Force, Royal Lancashire Regiment, 2nd Battalion, Number 5385.
Thanks!
Arkay