So grateful to everyone who has been 'banging away' on these two ladies and discovering so much of their history.
Could we please just go back to our Harriet for a moment?

Both cousin Stephen (bigmac1x) and I now think that Harriet Jane McDonald's first husband JOSEPH MCDONALD (she was b. 30 July 1891 Resolis, Scotland) he was born 16 July, 1967 Coldstream, Scotland), could have been married before in Canada, as he was 41 yrs. when he married Harriet (23 yrs) in Toronto, Canada on 9th April, 1914.
Joseph emigrated to Canada in 1890 when 23 yrs. of age. Surely it seems possible that he would have married at some stage soon after that.
Have fairly comprehensive coverage of his working life in Toronto up to and including 1918 Census - he worked as a Driver/Foreman for "Hendrie & Co.", Cartage Contractors for the Canadian Pacific Railways. He died in Oct. 1919, Toronto, Canada (51 yrs.). Haven't also been able to locate any children, either of his possible first marriage, nor of the marriage to Harriet. How do I trace any earlier marriage? Thanks once again for all your great help, Aussie Ruth