Hi Evy ... welcome to the thread!
I'm not sure if we've any Lindsay family in common.
My line goes back to a David Lindsay, Schoolmaster and Parochial Teacher, born abt 1784 at Alyth in Perthshire. His daughter Jannet married my paternal Great Great Grandfather Alexander Neilson in Blairgowrie, Perthshire in 1836.
There's David's Grand-daughter Hellen Lindsay born abt 1847, who married a Thomson Young born abt 1846, in Maryton near Montrose in 1874. His parents were Alexander Young and Agnes Smart.
Regards
Chiad Fhear