I have picked up this conversation in my traling;
My family has a connection to the Meakes. My great uncle married Grace Kathleen Meakes, a daughter of Alfred Moore Meakes and Elizabeth Meakes(nee Quinn).
Here is my summation.
Benjamin Meakes was born in Hampshire in about 1837. His death notice of 1902 gives his age as 65.
Melbourne The Argus 21 April 1902-MEAKES.-On the 20th April, at "Omro," Park Street South Melbourne, Benjamin Meakes, late of Paris, brother of Mrs. W M Fay of Kew, and A. M Meakes of Hay NSW., aged 65 years.Paris papers please copy.
He has a brother named Alfred Moore Meakes, born around 1845. His death notice of 1918 referring to his age of 73.
Melbourne The Argus 31 May 1918-MEAKES - On the 29th May, 1918, at his private residence, "Woodlands," No. 11 Marine Parade,St. Kilda, Alfred Moore Meakes (formerly of Hay,N.S.W.), the dearly beloved husband of Elizabeth Meakes, aged 73 years. (By request, no flowers.)
The parents are Thomas Meakes and Elizabeth Moore.
Both arrived in Australia-The Argus (Melbourne, Vic) Tuesday 23 February 1886 reports on the arrival Messageries Maritimes S.S. Yarra in Adelaide. Having left Marseilles on 13 January, the MMSS Yarra was bound for Melbourne and Sydney and beyond. Bound on the passenger list for Melbourne is Alfred Meaks, and J.Benjamin Meakes.
The will of Benjamin Meakes: look up Victorian Public Records Office....Wills and Probates
http://www.access.prov.vic.gov.au/public/veo-download?objectId=090fe273802d5d15&format=pdf&docTitle=Image&encodingId=Revision-2-Document-1-Encoding-1-DocumentData refers to:
His nephew Franklin Ethelbert Fay, his “natural born son” Alfred Moore Meakes, son of Nellie de Bouge of Bournemouth, England. His nieces Maude and Maybelle Meakes, both daughters of his brother Alfred Moore Meakes and Elizabeth Passmore Meakes(nee Craze).
An inquest into the death of Elizabeth is detailed in The Argus of 19 October 1877-page 6, and includes reference to Eliza Quinn, a domestic servant in the service of Mr Meakes since August 1876, and evidence given by Elizabeth Emily Lydia Meakes, 15 years of age.
I have other info on the Meakes .