Hi Draceana,
Elizabeth's birth place is shown as Great Totham in 1891. Also, she marries as Eliza instead of Elizabeth.
This looks like a good candidate to me in 1871:
1871
RG10/1674 152 5
Great Totham, Essex
Nr Compasses
Willm Cottee, head, 55, Labourer, b. Essex Gt Braxted
Matilda, wife, 44, b. Gt Totham
Robert, son, unm, 21, Labourer, b. do.
Arthur, son, 13, b. do.
Golden, son, 12, Labourer, b. do.
Eliza, dau, 8, b. do.
Willie, son, 5, b. do.
Chas, son, 3, b. do.