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The daughter's marriage is relevant even if you haven't found a civil record.
Daughter may have been baptised in Presbyterian Church (or other Protestant church) as an infant or small child. Unfortunately not all church records survive and of those that do not are all online.
I'm more than well aware of this & it is exactly why her marriage isn't relevant ... Nothing about her or her claimed family prior to her marriage is online.
Of course I haven't eliminated the marriage of Robert & Mary. However, nothing that I have found relating to this marriage indicates any connection to the person I am looking for. Equally, I have a strong suscipion that the information provided by the bride at her baptism & marriage could be false and not just that her father may not be William, but also that her mother may not be Mary. As for Mary McKeown, the only marriage I can find ... online to a Montgomery, is a Robert ... it establishes nothing since there are many Presbyterian records unavailable online, let alone hundreds of possible church doors to bang on to find the right people.
It's hard enough trying to eliminate who she claimed were her parents never mind trying to prove that she was the daughter of others. For goodness sake, she may not even have been born the name she claims to be. I've had a hard enough time trying to cut through all this cloak & dagger stuff & untill I can eliminate her claimed parents & why, finding any other possibilities is futile.
After everything I have looked at, finding a death/burial record for two married people with the identities of those she has given doesn't seem to me to be unreasonable. These details as claimed, must be more likely to find, if they existed, as they are post pre registration. So why can't I find them? Could it be for the same reason I cannot find four other relatives who's deaths were post registration, or perhaps they were all lies too? Who knows, but somehow, I have to check out all the available online material first. I don't think clouding other researchers minds with half baked possibilites helps.
So, that leaves eliminating a marriage of William & Mary, which would be terrific if one could be found and the same could be said for their burials. I'm not trying to make information fit the scenario, I'm trying to establish if any of the info is factual.
Given all the above, if this was one of your family members, given only the info transcribed on the church baptism & marriage records available online, what would you do differently?
I'm not being sarcastic. If you really want to help, then finding a burial for this couple would be my best start. after that, I'll be happy to give you the details I started with.
In the meantime, your interest is much appreciated and thank you. VB
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Hi,
I am in NSW Australia, and have a long history of searching out my NSW families, many of them came out from Ireland in the 1800s. My interest in family history predates online searches by decades.... but the concept of searching, finding, considering, examining, validating, and learning about our ancestors is the same. It is a shared task. So may I mention that sometimes I resolved long standing issues by allowing fresh eyes to minutely inspect and reconcile each piece of information provided on every document in front of me.
Perhaps if you were to type up your own transcription of the marriage record, and share it on RChat, then the people reading this thread may find the spare moments in their lives to help you with this long standing obstacle.
JM