Need Advice on connecting HEDGES brothers #2

[James R. Yeowell]

That's why I cannot find her on the 1881 census... poor Selina.

Now I am not sure which Edwin Arnold it's likely to be... Lewisham is more Essex than Kent, isn't it?  Yet there is are some Edwin Arnolds in Kent that could be him.

[jamajo]

1866........  no wonder i couldn't find her on the census

        Sue

[Nennefer]

I'm also confused... I know we've come across Arnold = Hedges marriages before, but was this one of them?

Surname     First name(s)     Age     District     Vol     Page
Marriages Sep 1866   (>99%)
ARNOLD    Edwin        Lewisham    1d   1256
Crosman    Charles T         Lewisham    1d   1256
Durling    Mary A         Lewisham    1d   1256
HEDGES    Selina         Lewisham    1d   1256

I don't have all my papers with me at the moment as at Daughters babysitting but the only Hedges= Arnlold marriage I have is...
Sophia HEDGES 1839 Daughter of James and Eliza married John ARLOLD 1839 Mar Q Romford Essex Vol 4a p 73.
This is not another case of sisters Selina and Sophia marring brothers again is it.

[Nennefer]

  Jenny..... i think somewhere i saw a possible Selina Hedges and Edwin Arnold but i cant find it

  Anyway i searched for Selina Arnold and found this death, what do you think?

   Oct-Nov-Dec 1867 Selina Arnold, age 27, Medway, Kent
            Vol 2a   Page 238

  Would make birth about 1840

    Sue

  

Poor Selina I wonder what happed to her. Perhaps died in childbirth.  I can feel another death Certificate request comming on. Oh dear. I'm so nosey.

[James R. Yeowell]

Possible son:

Births Mar 1867   (>99%)
Arnold    Edwin         Medway    2a   458


Seems he died though:

Deaths Mar 1867   (>99%)
Arnold    Edwin    0    Medway    2a   288

[jamajo]

 Jenny have we seen this?

    Marriages Mar 1877 in Gravesend

Eliza Caroline Arnold
Thomas Isaac Hedges
Henry George Jones
Jane Elizabeth Woolfe

 Vol 2a  Page 514

    Sue

[Nennefer]

 Jenny have we seen this?

    Marriages Mar 1877 in Gravesend

Eliza Caroline Arnold
Thomas Isaac Hedges
Henry George Jones
Jane Elizabeth Woolfe

 Vol 2a  Page 514

    Sue

No not seen this. These ARNOLD are becoming quite a feature. Wonder who Thomas Isaac HEDGES belongs to

[James R. Yeowell]

I've spotted this in 1881:

   Dwelling:   Scocles Cottage
   Census Place:   Minster In Sheppey, Kent, England
   Source:   FHL Film 1341232     PRO Ref RG11    Piece 0978    Folio 28    Page 5
   Marr   Age   Sex   Birthplace
Elizabeth HEDGES   W   62    F   Molish, Kent, England
   Rel:   Head
James HEDGES   U   34    M   Sheerness, Kent, England
   Rel:   Son   Handicap: Deaf & Dumb
Thomas HEDGES   W   25    M   Sheerness, Kent, England
   Rel:   Son
   Occ:   Agricultural Labourer
William HEDGES   U   22    M   Sheerness, Kent, England
   Rel:   Son
   Occ:   Agricultural Labourer



This Thomas was a widow already at age 25... could it be Thomas Isaac Hedges?

[Nennefer]

No I'm thinking this is getting a bit weird Scockles is in Minster, Sheppy. Bet you can't guess where I live at the moment.