My last email was a load of waffle! Robert Kilgour was born in Berwickshire around 1832/33. I don't know if his parents Thomas Kilgour and Jane Binnie were married. However, on the second marriage certificate the details were given as Thomas Kilgour, Cotton Weaver, deceased and Jane Kilgour ms Binnie, which would suggest she was still alive and that they married! The name Whillis came down in the family to Robert's grand-daughter Mary born 4.4.1912 died 1991.
On Robert's marriage certificate in 1865 it states he is a widower age 32, at this point he is marrying Isabella Cardno, age 29, in Edinburgh. Robert also married Martha Ririe (Ryrie) in Aberdeen on 17th October 1856. On that certificate is says his father was a soldier in the 71st regiment (deceased) and his mother's name is Jane Whillis. So I assume they were married after all. I've tried looking for her death just now but there are two pages of them in Scotlands People. will need tolook when I next go to Register House.