OK.
Forgot to mention the on the marriage records for Sheepshed, that we were discussing, there was no mention of spinster, widow, etc. So will have to assume John WAS the father and got a bit confused, or something was going on which was not recordable!
Have also googled Uppingham workhouse (for Medbourne William) - looks a nice place - do they still provide accommodation and do I need to book?! Tactful with description of some residents as 'imbeciles'!!