Stephen Joseph LAND - ? absconder

[sheiky]

Hi Deb
Has your family had any other rumours of his disappearance,I have looked on Passenger lists,but cannot find anyone I think is him. Trawled through the BMD deaths. What else can you do? If he went to another country,I wonder where he would have gone.
Please keep in touch if you have any ideas.
Regards Sheila

[scruffy 10]

Hi Sheila,
Unfortunately, my dad never spoke of his family all he ever said was that his father was adopted,he didn`t know that his father was brought up by the grandfather, so I did not hear any rumours of what happened to our grt grandfather all the info I have is what I have found out myself.
I have also been through BMD numerous times to try and find Stephen.
It is a mystery! perhaps we will find out one day hopefully.
If I find out anymore I will let you know.
I was wondering how far back you have gone on the tree, I seem to have come to a standstill at about 1790s.
Hope to hear from you soon
Deb

[sheiky]

Hi Deb
No I have not got very far,only know there grandfather WILLIAM LAND married a SUSANNAH DUFFIELD. William's dad was also a WILLIAM LAND, his mum was a MARY but not sure what her surname was.
I belong to Genes Reunited,so will try to find out more on there.
Do you have any photos of any LAND'S, I have one of my Grandfather Robert,and his brother Stephen. But not of any others. Could you e-mail any you have to me,or post them on here,I have not tried attaching anything on here yet.
Regards sheila

[scruffy 10]

Hi Sheila,
 Unfortunately I have no pictures not even of my dad when he was little, this was due to a very nasty disagreement dad had with his eldest brother after their parents died,it left my dad with nothing, which is why dad never spoke of his family. If you could put a picture of Robert on here that would be great as I would like to see if there is a family likeness to my dad.
  Changing the subject slightly I was looking on my tree and wondered if you were the daughter of Daphne Josephine and Charles William Farley, if you are I think you may have contacted my sister on Genes Reunited last year.
Perhaps we could share info on our trees.
Hopefully hear from you soon.
Deb

[sheiky]

Hi Deb
Yes I am the daughter of Charles & Daphne,what is your sister's name.
I will try and put photo of Robert on here at weekend,also I have photo of Stephen,Robert's brother.
Do you have access to Genes Reunited,I do not go on there as much as I used to. Have not updated tree for a while.
You seem to have as much trouble with your relatives as I do with my dads family,my dad lost contact with his family,and the consequences were we never met any of his relatives,and we have no photos of any.

LAND was my mum's maiden name.
She has one brother,STEPHEN  LAND,and a sister Florence (Betty) ELIZABETH BARKS(LAND)
There dad was ROBERT SAMUEL LAND,there mum MARY ELWIN.
Robert had three brothers I know of:
CHARLES,WILLIAM & STEPHEN JOSEPH. Stephen married another Elwin sister,FLORENCE

There mum & dad were STEPHEN JOSEPH(absconder) & HARRIET PHOEBE OXBOROUGH.
Stephen had a brother WILLIAM & a sister SUSANNAH.

If you cannot go on Genes site,I can write up what I have in more detail later if you want  and e-mail it to you.
Regards sheila

[scruffy 10]

Hi Sheila,
I thought I had the right person!
Unfortunately I have not joined Genes Reunited, I`m just on Ancestry. My sister`s name is Patricia. Thanks for the detail on the tree I have most of it, but the few extra names are useful. The details I have are the same as yours, my grandfather was William John, Robert Samuel`s brother. William John married Daisy Chambers they had Daisy and Susannah they were twins unfortunately they died when they were babies, William, Ernest (my dad), Stephen and charles then we go down to the Absconder! and our grandfathers, then William Land married Susannah Duffield you have the names of their children, and after that we have William Land I don`t know who he married but I have a Joseph Duffield marrying a Sarah, that`s as far as I have got.
I could give you more detail on my dad`s brother`s and who the married etc.
Like you I could email them to you and you email me so we can compare our trees,but I do not know how to email through this site I will check it out.
Hope to hear from you soon.
Deb

[Laurina]

Deb - You need to send a personal message to Sheila and give her your email address. It will not appear on this page. You will then be able to communicate with Sheila.

If you click on her name you'll get a new page - at the bottom it says 'send a personal message' - use this method to exchange confidential material or dates of people who might still be alive.

PS...  You don't even need to exchange email addresses if you don't wish to - just communicate through the personal message system

Good luck

Laurina

[scruffy 10]

Thanks Laurina,
I thought that was what I had to do, I`ve sent a message
Deb