Hi. Am I being cynical? I think in most cases we can shed our modern ideas of romance if our Ancestors were working people.
Women needed a provider.
Men needed a housekeeper.
& each had natural physical needs.
In my tree, women in particular married young.
Widowers were usually remarried within a year. It was practical. There were children to be cared for, and a working man expected food on the table prepared by a woman.
I was amazed when I realised that my Great Grandmother had married at 13!
AGE AT MARRIAGE
In 1837 – when the minimum legal age at marriage was 14 for boys and 12
for girls – it was possible to give one’s age at marriage as ‘of full
age’ or ‘minor’ (aged under 21), as appropriate. (Indeed, in the
illustrative marriage entry included as a schedule to the Registration
Act, a bachelor and spinster were shown with these age descriptions
respectively.) In the early 1850s, the earliest period for which data
are available, only about one half of bridegrooms and brides stated
their exact ages, although the situation improved steadily and by the
end of the century, virtually all ages at marriage were fully recorded.
There have been a number of Acts of Parliament regarding marriage since
1836, although they mostly concern aspects such as validity of marriages
(including those solemnised overseas), void and voidable marriages, and
prohibited degrees of consanguinity and affinity. However, the Acts of
Parliament most relevant to this present Historical Volume are those
concerning the legal minimum age at marriage:
1836-1928 - Minimum age at marriage: 14 for males, 12 for females
1929 Age of Marriage Act - Marriages between persons either of whom is
aged under
16 are void
1949 - consolidated two previous Acts, repealing them.
1969 Family Law - reduced the age of majority from 21 to 18, and the age at
Reform Act which men and women were able to marry without
Parental consent from 21 to 18.
This is from "Historic Marriages and Divorces – 1837 to latest year and
‘Notes to tables’ " from
www.statistics.gov.uk/.../EXPODATA%5Ccommentary%5C*Marriage*_Historical_Notes.doc
Amazing!
Liz