I wonder why Benjamin wasn't buried with them? 
Is that everyone now?
Jamjar
Sarah Jane COLE must have been born a Catholic. This may be why she chose to be buried in the Catholic Section. I think around then, and well in to the 20th century, there was a strong division between Catholic and Protestant religions so religious beliefs may have overridden family.
Sarah COLE (GILMORE)'s birth would appear to be around 1839. No GILMORE on NSWBDM but a Sarah GILMER for 1839 with parents William and Jane which may be her misspelt.
I think you have all provided me with enough information to start putting it together. Thanks everyone for your contribution. Have a great New Year.
Cheers
Spruso