Toni, you wrote, right back in part 1:
no. 1 Emily b. circa 1874 Romsey father Edward b.1853 do. a Coachman Mother Caroline
no.2 Emily A b. circa 1875 Sudbury fateher Edward b.1838 a Butcher and later a butcher and farmer Mother Mary A
no.3 Emily b. circa 1876 London father Edward b.1848 a carman mother Eliza
no. 4 Emily b. circa 1877 Lumley Durham father Edward b.1839 a coal miner mother Jane Ann
The emboldened Emily is the daughter of Edward Wheeler and Caroline Fielder.
As it happens:
William Wheeler, born about 1826, Romsey, Hampshire married Sarah Young, born about 1836, Millbrook, Hampshire in December Quarter, 1857 in South Stoneham district, Hampshire.
Probably just a coincidence.
There's also a Charles Richard Wheeler born 1857, Romsey who married Emma (born 1856, Shrewton, Wiltshire). This Charles Richard Wheeler was the brother of Edward Wheeler who married Caroline Fielder (on 14 April 1873, Romsey Abbey). Coincidently, their grandfather was named Richard Wheeler. However, their father was Samuel Wheeler whilst their mother was Elizabeth Kirby.
I have Wheelers from this area in my own database.