Hi
This is the info I have on the Tolmie family.
Alexander born 1835 St Cyrus Kincardine died 1913 Edinburgh he married Helen Grieve McLellan 1861 Edinburgh, parents were Alexander Tolmie and Mary Christie don't have any dates whatsoever on them.
I also have another family Alexander Tolmie b 1805 d 1871 Urray ross and Cromarty, he married Ann Tolmie 1824 Fodderty, I have their children, Margaret 1826, Catherine 1829, Ann 1834 and Mary 1839.
Could it be possible that Alexander born 1805 married twice.
Ann