By the time we had found and photographed Sapper Wolstencroft, it was time to go into Ieper and to check in to our hotel. The Ambrosia proved to be very quiet, down a side street from the main square. It was small and family run, nothing glamorous but perfectly comfortable and very convenient for the town centre, museums and the Menin Gate.
Our plan was to go to the eight o'clock ceremony at the Menin Gate and then to find somewhere simple to eat. It had been a very long day and seemed ages since we came through the tunnel that morning. (Incidentally, if you haven't done it, the channel tunnel is very quick and effiicent but I still prefer the ferry. I didn't much like the ear popping thing or the slightly claustrophobic feeling.)
So we went for a little walk, checked out the restaurants and quickly realised that there wasn't a huge amount of choice for veggies but a little bistro, very close to the Menin Gate said it was open that evening and it had pasta and pizza choices, so we settled for that and went back to the hotel to have a bit of a rest and clean up before going out for the evening.
At seven thirty we went out again, planning to call in and book a table on our way to the ceremony. The restaurant was still closed but there were lights on so we thought it would open in time for the people comimg away from the gate.
At the end of November and mid week, we expected there might be a small gathering for the ceremony and were truly amazed to find that by five to eight, there were probably two hundred people there, including three school groups. The efficiency with which the officials closed the road and organised the crowd was so smooth. There were three youngsters from an English school who were there representing their school and laying a wreath. They did it with quiet dignity and I should imagine their teachers would have been very proud of them. I had intended to take photographs but somehow, when the moment came, it didn't feel appropriate and I wanted to concentrate on what was actually happening, so I'm sorry, you will just have to take my word for it that the Last Post was so moving and that even the youngest children were absolutely silent during it. I was standing very close to the panel with the name of another of my great uncles. But there are so many names, it is absolutely impossible to take in the numbers and to think that these are the ones whose bodies were never found.