Hi Carole,
Is it the second marriage?
The following marriage at St Dunstan and All Saints, Stepney on 11 December 1853 appears to be relevant:
James OATWAY, age 40, widower, basket maker, 16 Globe Lane, father - John Oatway, weaver
Ann THORPE, age 41, spinster, 16 Globe Lane, father - Charles Thorpe, carpenter
Witnesses appear to be Samuel and Ann Hodge.
Ann appears to have been buried at St Dunstan and All Saints on 29 October 1854, aged 42.
Nigel