This may be your lighthouse connection

Henry Snr is a Harbour Pilot.
1861 Census
Felixstow Ferry,
Fellixstow, Suffolk
RG9/1168/7/8
Henery (sic) NEWSON, 50, Head, Mar, Trinity Pilot, born Felixstow
Sarah, 45, Wife, Mar, born Walton
Sarah, 20, Daug, Unm, born Felixstow
William, 12, Son, Unm, Scholar born Felixstow
Edward, 2, Son, Unm, born Felixstow
Interestingly from 1841 Census Henry is deiscribed a Jnr.
Living near him in 1861 is Henery Newson, aged 72, Widower, former Mariner, born Orford, Sfk. Possibly his Father?
Christening;
Edward Newson, 07 August 1859, Felixstow. Parents Henry and Sarah
So Henry born 1840 has left home and I cannot find him on any other Census post 1851.
1871 Census
RG10/1758/7/5
Sarah Newson is aged, 54, a Widow, Annuitant, born Walton. Son William aged 20, Mariner, is at home with her.
Death;
Henry NEWSON
March 1871
Woodbridge 4a 441, Age 60 ( so born c 1811)
She appears on the 1881/1891/1901 Census. In 1901 she is age 82.
Death;
Sarah NEWSON
March 1907
Woodbridge 4a 702, Age 89
Cheers,
Trish
