James BIRD was my gt gt grandfather, but I have no knowledge of his Birth, Marriage or Death.
On the 1851 Census my gt gt Grandmother Alice BIRD, nee SANDS, was unmarried living in London as a Servant. She was born c1823 in Hawkhurst, Kent.
On the 1861 Census she is living in Hawkhurst, Kent , Married, as "Head" with two children Thomas born 1856 in Lambeth and Richard my gt grandfather, born 1858 in Gillingham, Kent. Against her name the enumerator has written "She is supported by her husband, employed on The Rail-INDIA"
On the 1871 Census she is still in Hawkhurst with the two children and beside her name are the words "Absent Husband"
By the 1881 Census in Hawkhurst she is a "WIDOW"
The only knowledge of her husband's name is that he is named as JAMES BIRD, the father, on both children's birth certs. On the first child's he is a Labourer and on my gt grandfather's a Driver or Diver (not clear).
I have searched the GRO site through every year from 1851 to 1861 for a marriage of an Alice SANDS but have found no matching husband of James BIRD.
I am guessing James may have been born around the same time as Alice. early 1820s but he is a complete mystery.
On the IGI there are some James BIRD birth entries for India around that time, but of course have no idea if one of them could be him.
I really would appreciate any help and suggestions.
With thanks
Polly