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Re: Scott/Adoption/1919..need help!
« Reply #108 on: Saturday 07 November 09 00:37 GMT (UK) »
Thanks, Judy.  .

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« Reply #109 on: Saturday 07 November 09 00:41 GMT (UK) »
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« Reply #110 on: Saturday 07 November 09 09:12 GMT (UK) »
Oh dear!

This is unfortunately the trouble with "chatting" over the internet - one of the drawbacks is that we can't hear a tone of voice, and it's easy for a gentle enquiry to be misinterpreted.

The smiley faces are there to help with this proble, but sometimes they cause problems too!

The one -  ??? - just means that someone is a little puzzled.

It is best, as mentioned, to keep correspondents up to date with enquiries, especially if they have gone to lots of trouble to help - that way misunderstandings can be minimised.

Like Ankerdine, I hope this story will be continued - after trying so hard to help it would be lovely for us all to hear of any resolution.

Kind regards, Arranroots  ;)
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Re: Scott/Adoption/1919..need help!
« Reply #111 on: Saturday 07 November 09 10:16 GMT (UK) »
Hi Kathy

It was me who asked the question regarding contact with the Houchin family - not Marty  :) As Arranroots has put so well, it was a simple question given you had said somethings that could only have come about through personal contact. I wasn't aware that you had managed to make contact in recent days with the family, so your comments now make sense in that context.

One of the very positive things about RootsChat, which I have seen happen very rarely in other forums, is that people here actually fully engage their minds (and sometimes emotions) on some problems and difficult research. People care about the verification of information so that the original poster really does get answers to questions that they raise, or gets as close as we can possibly manage. People here willingly spend a long time helping out (and in some cases, their own money to look at paid-for resources) to try and get the right information. Marty, as you know, has really been involved with you trying to help you find some answers  :)

Mona's story has caught at all our hearts. We all sincerely hope you might be able to find some conclusive proof for her children and descendents that this is her mother and family. I am not so sure you will find all the answers to some of your questions, no one ever does really, but the closer you get the stronger the possibility that you will be able to make some conclusions.

Let us know if we can help further in any area  :)

Monica
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Re: Scott/Adoption/1919..need help!
« Reply #112 on: Saturday 07 November 09 14:24 GMT (UK) »
I truly appreciate all the help and obvious interest and care from this website.  It has been amazing.  Yes, I did make contact (that's why I so eagerly wanted to connect with you off-line). I felt extremely nervous about it as Marty knows, not wanting ever to spring a previously unknown child into anyone's family tree and it is obvious Mona Dowling was unknown to some members of the family.  However, she is the older half-sibling to someone still living and so I was especially concerned about the contact; hence perhaps read too much into your ??? 

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Re: Scott/Adoption/1919..need help!
« Reply #113 on: Saturday 07 November 09 20:19 GMT (UK) »
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Re: Scott/Adoption/1919..need help!
« Reply #114 on: Saturday 07 November 09 21:54 GMT (UK) »
Here are pictures of Mona as a 3 year old and as a young woman.

Kathy I have emailed you.
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« Reply #115 on: Saturday 07 November 09 21:56 GMT (UK) »
Small, and probably inconsequential point, but the writing in the letters is unlike any Irish writing of the period that I have ever seen.

Could it be as already suggested, that the letters were not written by Annie Dowling herself, perhaps either by a "baby broker" or by a friend who could read and write?

I must say, having trawled through a load of 1911 Irish censuses today, many many people could not read/write...so I don't think the above point is that small at all.
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Re: Scott/Adoption/1919..need help!
« Reply #116 on: Saturday 07 November 09 22:38 GMT (UK) »
Would disagree with these two statements-

Small, and probably inconsequential point, but the writing in the letters is unlike any Irish writing of the period that I have ever seen.
Don't think nationality can be deduced by the handwriting in this case.

I must say, having trawled through a load of 1911 Irish censuses today, many many people could not read/write...so I don't think the above point is that small at all.
Suspect just as large a proportion of English people couldn't read/write. Illiteracy probably more do do with economic situation in an area rather than the actual country- i.e. in slums more illiterate, etc.
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