Kathy...it appears I may have offended you. If I have I am sorry.
From a niece in the family. She had heard that a child had "died." She also said the Houchins were Catholic.
Keeping you straight
....niece in whose family?... have you yet the copy of the Dowling/Houchin marriage cert.?
Added: Like minded thinking Monica!
You asked for an explanation...I'll give you one. The reason I put in whose niece is that you have given more information without explaining where/how it came about. If you want people to help, everything needs to be explained and verified. I thought I was teasing in manner, it appears not, and I have offended you in some way.
My comment "like minded thinking Monica" was because me and monica posted at the same time, with the same thought...(new information...where from...)
I wish you the very best of luck...and truly hope that your search brings peace to this poignant and sad story.